Valentine’s Day Activities Friendship Book

Whether you’re married, in a relationship, single, or it’s complicated, Valentine’s Day gives all of us an extra opportunity to show some love. Love can be expressed in anything from a small verbal affirmation to a grand commercialized gesture. It can also come from a person of any age- it doesn’t matter if they’re 97 or 7 years old. Which brings me to celebrating Valentine’s Day with your class.

You may have heard of the term “Galentine’s Day,” where women choose to celebrate the love they have for their girlfriends, moms, daughters, etc. This idea of Galentine’s Day got me thinking…if women can coin their own term, why not kids?

PALentine’s Day

PALentine’s Day can be thought of as a day for kids and their pals! It’s the perfect occasion for kids to show their version of love to their friends. Classrooms across the country have been making DIY heart-covered mailboxes and exchanging little store-bought paper punch out Valentine cards for years. It only makes sense to piggyback on this tradition with activities to help remind students what it means to be a good friend to others.

Friendship Books

PALentine’s Day Friendship Books are a great way to encourage those positive relationships. Each page has different individual, partner, or whole group activities to promote love and friendship at school and in your class community.

Two Valentine Friendship Book covers, each decorated with a cartoon child holding a heart. One has a boy with pink borders, the other a girl with purple borders. Both say Be my palentine! and have a space for a name.

Individual Activities

First, you could have a meaningful class discussion about what it means to be a good pal. Have the kids come up with ways they can show that they care about their friends. They can record their thoughts on the following writing pages:

A worksheet titled “Adjectives to Describe a Good PAL” is perfect for Valentine's Day Activities, featuring a heart in the center with words like kind, caring, funny, helpful, and loyal in circles around it.

A worksheet titled “3 Ways I Can Be a Good Pal to Others” makes a great addition to Valentine’s Day activities: cheer up friends when they're sad, help with math, and invite them to play at recess.

Partner Activities

After that, pair up each student with a pal. The two of them can get to know better through these interview-style pages:

A Valentine's Day-themed worksheet titled Will You Be My Palentine? is filled out with answers about a friend named Juliana, making it perfect for Valentine's Day Activities. It’s decorated in pink and purple and set atop matching paper.

A Valentine’s-themed worksheet titled “Will you be my Palentine?”—a fun Valentine's Day activity with sections for a pal’s portrait, a compliment, favorite recess activity, and something in common. Answers feature Juliana, tetherball, and having little brothers.

A child’s drawing of two smiling girls standing on green grass under a yellow sun, surrounded by a border with hearts—perfect for Valentine's Day Activities—rests atop a stack of pink and purple papers.

Two children sit on a carpeted floor, each holding a clipboard with a Valentine's Day activities worksheet and writing with a pencil. They appear focused on their work, facing slightly toward each other.

Whole Group Activities

There are also activities in the friendship books that you can do with your class as a whole group. Students go on a Scavenger Hunt around the room to look for pals that fit different descriptions. The kids love getting to learn some new things about their friends.

A worksheet titled Find a PAL WHO: with hearts containing prompts like plays basketball, likes to draw, and handwritten names such as Carter, Macy, and Riley. This pink paper is perfect for fun Valentine's Day Activities in the classroom.

For the very last page of the book, each student puts the page shown below on their desk. You can do a “scoot” activity where everyone rotates to each other’s desks. Each time they come to a new desk, they write what they love most about that particular student. This way, each person gets to have a compliment from everyone in the whole class and all of the kids are able to see how much they are valued by their friends.

A pink and white paper titled What my pals love most about me is bordered with hand-drawn hearts, perfect for Valentine's Day Activities. Messages say You are a kind friend, Emma is smart!, and I think you are funny. Pink papers are underneath.

The kids LOVE filling out their friendship books, which make for a sweet keepsake to take home. You can find these PALentine books right here in the shop on my website, or in my TPT store.

More Valentine’s Day resources

If you’re looking for additional ideas for this month, you might want to check out this Valentine card idea too!

A collage shows a “Valentine’s Day card idea from students to parents,” featuring cards with drawings of kids holding balloons, loving messages, and colorful hearts—perfect for Valentine’s Day activities at school or home.

You could also display a visual reminder in the classroom of ways that students can show love throughout the year. My students have always enjoyed making these L-O-V-E flags and hanging them up as a banner. They make the classroom look very festive all through February!

Four pink and purple paper banner flags hang on a wall, each featuring a heart with the word LOVE and handwritten messages about love and kindness. The flags are part of a classroom or school Valentine’s Day Activities display.

A heart-shaped LOVE banner with handwritten notes about love, including messages about kindness, hugs for family, and cheering up friends—perfect for Valentine's Day activities—bordered with pink and purple.

Show some love!

What are some ways that you help your students show love at school for Valentine’s Day (and/or the other 364 days of the year)? Feel free to share with other teachers in the comments below.

Happy Valentine’s Day, Happy Galentine’s Day, and Happy PALentine’s Day to you and the ones you love!